Love Making -- Perfection

There is a difference between having sex and making love. You can
satisfy your sexual urge in a few minutes through a straight
intercourse. But love making is something more elaborate. It begins much
before the intercourse, and ends later.

From how you lead up to the moment to how much you focus on the foreplay to what you actually do
while you are in the act, there is a lot involved in love making. If
you are looking for some effective ways to please your partner, and make
him or her go wild with you, read on our piece.

Foreplay Does Matter:

The
art of making love is not just restricted to having sex. Foreplay can
be more pleasurable than the actual act itself, especially for women.
Foreplay is a way of getting your partner ready for what is to come, and
to build upon the anticipation. It is also a way for your partner’s
body to prepare itself and start the natural process of lubrication,
which will make sex more pleasurable and less painful.

Making love
is not just about a physical connect. You may be having some amazing
time in bed, but if you want to take it beyond, the secret could be in
connecting emotionally with your partner.

How To Please Your Man And Make Him Yearn For You:

Each
man differs in his tastes and choices, but there are some aspects which
are commonly enjoyed by a majority of men, in a physical bonding. Here
are some of the things you can try out during your intimate moments with
him to make sure he can’t have enough of you:

1. Know How To Arouse Yourself:

While
you may think it is only your man’s job to turn you on, most guys do
get turned on when they see their partners in a state of arousal, even
before they have done anything.
As a woman, you may
need time to get aroused and come into the mood. Your man will surely be
there to get your body ready. But he will also love if you took the
initiative and did something to arouse yourself.
If you
find it difficult to get aroused initially, close your eyes and
fantasize. Think of all those things you want your man to do and imagine
he is doing it to you right now and what it is doing to your body. Try
and feel those sensations in your mind and imagine the way your body
will react.
You do not need to tell your man about
everything you were imagining and how you got aroused, but make sure
your partner can see the way your body is behaving and how it pleases
you.
2. Let The Act Be Fun:

The word sex often
brings to mind only the act and the end pleasure. While you may
fantasize a lot about the act, in practice it could be something
different. Sex does not always have to be smooth as it is possible that
both you and your man try out certain positions that do not work out.
You may feel uncomfortable or irritable.
However, do
not brood over such failed attempts, as it would impact your mood and
disappoint your partner. Instead of focusing on what went wrong and why
it could not be better, just use that moment to laugh out loud and ease
the tension.
Your man will love you for not making him look like a failure in bed, and it may also boost his sexual performance.
3. Give Him Some Visual Treat:

There
are many ways to treat your partner to a visual extravaganza, but it
should depend on what you are comfortable doing. Men love watching their
partners in action, and it will give them a high to women getting
stimulated because of them.
Visual stimulation is a
powerful medium to get your man aroused and bring him into the mood. If
you let him enjoy more of that, he will never stop coming back to you,
asking for more.
The key is to make sure that you enjoy
yourself, because only when you are aroused and are reaching that final
point, you can reflect that on your face. It will also give your
partner a kick.
Lie down and start playing with
yourself, but have eye contact with your partner. Looking at him, you
can show that you are enjoying and also check his reactions to your
moves. Move your body, make some noises and help yourself reach a
climax. If you do not want to go all the way on your own, show your man
when he should join you and help you reach there.
4. Stroke And Fondle Him:

Men
love it when their partners make good use of their hands and stroke
their little one. Fondle and stroke him and while being gentle, show his
manhood some firmness and authority.
You can also use a lubricant, such as massage oil, or those specifically meant for sexual pleasure.
Rub
your palms with the lubricant and place one of your hands on the base
of his penis. Use your other hand to move from the bottom to the top of
his penis. Make a gentle yet firm massage motion in circular and
twisting strokes.
Stroke the head of his penis with the
flat of your palm and go back down again, then back up. If you are
comfortable, you can go down to him at the same time and give him a mix
of both the hand and oral sensation.
5. Use Some Ties:

Tie
up your man to show him you have control, something he will love and
get excited about. Of course, we don’t mean that you tie him up in such a
way that he finds it difficult to relax or that it leaves marks on him.
Use
comfortable, sensual and silky ties, such as his tie, your scarf and
such to tie him loosely to the bedpost. Put a pillow below his head to
keep him propped up so that he can see what all you are doing to him.
Remember
that the idea to tie him up is to keep him in place while you do your
things on him. It does not have to be too tight, but more of a symbolic
thing, so tell your man that he is not allowed to move at all, until and
unless you tell him to do so.
To make it more fun, you
can give him a punishment each time he disobeys. If he tries to get up
and use his hands, give him a spank and put him back in place.
6. Make It Wet:

Your
man will love the sensation of water on his aroused body, so it is a
great idea to get him started while you both are in the shower together.
Open
the shower and kiss him full on the mouth as the water cascades over
your bodies. To make it even more intimate, put your arms around his
head and slowly rise on your toes as you kiss him. You can close your
eyes or open them slowly as you fade the kiss out.
Work
up a nice lather and soap him up. Better still, do it for each other.
Ask your partner to soap you up even as you start lathering him all
over. Show him where you want him to apply the soap.
Remember to kiss him in between the soapy session to show him how much you love him and are attracted to him.
7. Dress Naughty:

Your
man will want you more if you can master this art. There is nothing
more sensuous and a quicker way to arousal than seeing his partner
dressed up in naughty clothes around him.
Wear some
lacy or kinky underwear and walk around the house casually, without
making it look like you are making too much effort.
You can choose to wear a loose and oversized plain white shirt on top and leave the buttons open.
If
you want to take it to the next level and are comfortable, you can also
do away with your innerwear and switch to the next mode. Revel in your
skin and wear just that around the house, along with a pair of sexy high
heels or boots.
8. Talk Dirty To Him:

He will love it! You may feel that he will think low of you if you talk dirty, but the truth is, it will turn him on no end.
When
we say naughty, we do not mean abusing him or speaking in a way that
will tell him you’ve just spent some time down in the gutter.
Instead,
use your best husky voice (but avoid it if you have never tried it out
before and are not sure how it will sound) and tell him all those things
you want him to do to you. You can also start teasing him right away by
telling him all the things you want to do to him.
Take
some control and use a few abusive words which are not offensive and
which will give a hint of power and dominance to whatever you say.


How To Make Your Woman Happy And Make Her Ask For More:

Here
are some of the things you can try out in your intimate moments with
your woman to make sure she can never have enough of you:

1. Set Up The Mood:

If
no one ever told you this yet, the truth is, your woman will love you
more and enjoy herself more between the sheets if you set up the mood
for her.
Depending on what your woman likes and how she
likes to be pleased, create the perfect ambience for her. You can make
the lights dim and light up a few scented candles around the house.
Fill
up the bathtub and add some sensuous bath salts and a few rose petals
in the water. Make sure the water is nice and warm and help your woman
step in the tub with you. Sit with her, look her in the eye, tell her
how beautiful she is and lean in to kiss her.
To make
the setting perfect, remember to add some music in the background, not
too loud but yet something that she will be able to hear and enjoy.
2. Play With Her Clothes:

Many
men rip off the clothes of a woman and take her to bed instantly. If
you are one of those people who feel this is the best way to please your
woman, think again.
There is a lot that you can do
with the clothes that your woman is wearing. Instead of just removing
them all out or forcing her out of her clothes, turn that act of
removing clothes into an act of sensual pleasure for her.
When
you start taking off her clothes, make it slow and enticing. You can
always use the time to build up her mood and give her a taste of what is
to come. Your fingers should slowly brush her skin, and your lips
should give her those pecks around the intimates, as she expects more of
such acts while having sex.
Play along with whatever
she is wearing by taking out some of her clothes and leaving some on. If
she is wearing a shirt and a bra underneath, slowly take off her shirt
but keep the bra on. You can also use your teeth to open the buttons,
and maybe give her a little bite around her stomach and nipples as you
open her shirt. If you want to take off her bra, start by touching her
over her bra and slowly and gently massage her nipples till you can feel
them turning hard. Once you know she has turned on you can move over to
removing the bra completely.
Ease her out of her lower
dress and leave the panty on. You can slowly tongue her from over the
panty till you can hear her moaning and writhing with pleasure. You can
continue using your tongue on her panty until she starts to get wet when
you can move on to more foreplay, as we share in the point below.
3. Please Her With Foreplay:

There is a reason that the word foreplay is involved with pleasing a woman.
While
a man will love to jump in and do it, a woman likes to enjoy the time
she uses in foreplay. It will not only help to set her mood but will
also prepare her body for sex, by lubricating itself and making her wet.
As a result, she will feel less pain during intercourse and it will be
more pleasurable for her when you finally do it.
Remember
that foreplay does not involve groping her too tightly or roughening
her up. If that is something that both you and your woman enjoy, you can
save it for the later part.
For foreplay, try giving
her a sensuous massage, tease her by stroking her breasts and massaging
her nipples and hips. You can also touch her on her lady parts down
there in between the massage to help her get wet and get ready for
intercourse.
4. Go Down On Your Woman:

Your
partner may not always say it out loud, but once you go down on her the
right way, she will enjoy it and want more and more of it.
Make
sure that you first try some foreplay on your woman and then give her
the oral time. You should start slow and make use of both the tongue and
the fingers.
Your woman may like different things while you go down on her, so keep experimenting and seeing what makes her feel good.
5. Tease Her Into Sex:

Instead of jumping into the act right away, tease her into the job so that she can enjoy it.
Do not leave any gap between the time that you give her oral sex and the time that you start having sex.
Once
you start having sex, make sure you do not get rough and dirty
immediately or go from start to finish immediately. Instead, keep it
slow and prolong the act.
After oral sex, she is almost
at the point where she is ready to climax, start having sex but be
slow. Once she gets in the mood, stop, and then start again. Keep
repeating the same over and over again till she goes crazy and asks you
for more and immediate sex.
6. Take Control:

Women
love when their partners dominate them, and it is a great way to turn
on her. By being dominant, we do not mean that you forget what she wants
and instead only do what you want.
Instead, make sure
that you keep her pleasures in mind and yet show her that you are taking
control of her. Hold her firmly in your arms and turn her around as and
when you want to play with whichever part of her body. Though you are
firm and strong in your hold of her, do not hurt her in any way.
While
you take control, talk to her and give her instructions about what she
should and should not do while you are the controlling one. For
instance, you can keep telling her to moan louder as you can see her
reaching her climax, but tell her that you will not allow her to hold
your hands or use her hands when you want them.
Making love
to your partner is an intensely personal experience, one in which you
should both be considerate of each other’s feelings and needs. Make sure
you talk to your partner and understand what the other needs.